She was about sixteen years old when she began to date a seemingly nice fellow a few years older. After a little over half a year together, something happened. She became pregnant. She was barely seventeen, and still in highschool. She married the father, of course, just before the baby was born. A baby girl was born, beautiful as could be. The young couple depended greatly on the girl's parents for financial and emotional support, since neither the boy nor the girl was ready to be a parent. The young man did his best to support his family. However, he became facinated and obsessed with the occult. He got a large religious symbol tattoo'd onto his chest. The girl is still not yet 20 years old, and now the young couple is getting divorced. Their poor baby child will likely suffer the repercussions of their poor decision making.
Now, this seems like a sad story, right? It is. It's really tragic for the poor child. It's unfortunate for the young couple too. So young, and now each of them is carrying so much baggage. Maybe she's from a poor family? Maybe she's a minority race? Maybe she's one of those "filthy" liberals?
Please highlight the next paragraph to see the truth.
Fact: The young girl is a white, die-hard christian and conservative republican. She absolutely hates homosexuals and muslims. She believes that Obama is the antichrist. She has said several hateful statements over her facebook. She is completely against abortion and birth control. She is from a wealthy family and believes all poor people are lazy. She judges pretty much anyone whom is different from her (or anyone who tries to cure her ignorance).
Still feel sorry for her? Well, actually, I do. I feel sorry that she's filled with so much hate.
All I am saying, is that we shouldn't judge others without owning up to our faults and poor decisions. I'm not perfect either, in fact, I'm far from it. I've lied, I've tried alcohol, I'm currently sleeping in a car, I sometimes blow off friends because I'm feeling antisocial, and so much more. I think, what causes hate might be when people hold themselves to different standards than others. This girl would be friend material to me if only she wasn't filled with such hatred and hypocrisy. You can mess up your life as much as you want, but don't go preaching about your "good values". Good values are only worth something if you show them in your actions and choices in life.
I will NEVER tolerate ignorant hatred.
I want a baby so much, but seeing all these train-wrecks prevents me from doing something foolish. I will wait until my life is all goddamn set for me to have a baby. I'm going to do everything I can for my child, even before I end up pregnant. I believe abortion should be available for ALL WOMEN, even if I myself wouldn't terminate my little parasite. I want to raise a child very much, but I am well aware that I am not ready, even at the age of 20! This is not just for me. This is for my future family.
So let's all focus on solving the problems in our own lives, instead of being mean to other people.
SO! Let me tell you how I've been working on my life's issues:
My diet has been going well! I've kept pretty strict on it, and I never realized how little I really need to eat in order to feel full. Work has been going well too! I love the days where my boss makes me do a lot of work, instead of just standing behind the counter all day. It's only after I've sweat my ass off that I really feel like I've done a good job. I feel happy whenever the customers talk to me like a real person :D It's helped me to become kinder in the way I treat other customer service helpers.
Good news! I should be switching to a new cell phone and company soon. Probably just Straight Talk. That will be one less thing my mom has to worry about. Sprint's prices have just gotten ridiculous!
I only have two more years of college left! Yippee! I will probably try to get a Masters degree in something if I can afford it, but for now I'll just start looking for some good full-time jobs after graduation.
Poor Mr. Beardly has been stressed out about his car. I'm hoping it doesn't affect our relationship too bad. I've been doing what I can for him. I told him I'd pay for his new engine, but he wouldn't take my offer. That guy is such a sweetheart. I'm looking forward to seeing how long I can stay by his side <3 It's funny, even if our relationship doesn't work out... I will still always cherish the time we've spent together. He's been one of the best things to ever happen to me. He is such a sweetheart. He really deserves the best. And he has helped me to grow so much!
Hell, I'm driving in my car with my dad as a teacher. All for some guy! I must be nuts.
No, I think... I think they call it "love".
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